Why swiping doesn't work?
Dating apps focus on superficial metrics. They don't help you in connecting with like-minded people & building meaningful connections.
You have hit 100 right swipes today. You're on fire! 🔥

That's cool... but I haven't had a real conversation in weeks
You paused on his profile for 3.4 seconds. That's a "high interest" metric ✅

I paused because his dog looked like mine
Interesting. I'll match you with more guys with dogs! 🐶

Wait—no. I just want to meet someone who gets me






Dating Apps are Broken
Bringing back human-matchmaking
Seriously is a human-powered matchmaking service that lives entirely on Instagram. Our team (yes, actual humans) go through your Instagram profile to understand your vibe and we then connect you with someone who genuinely feels like a match.

How does it work?
Follow & DM
You follow @srslydating & send us a DM to get started
Profile Review
A matchmaker is assigned who reviews your profile
Get Matched
We introduce you to your curated matches
Love is love. We welcome people from all genders, orientations & identities.
Ready to find real connection?
Our matchmakers connect you with people who actually want something real. No more ghosting, no more games.
We are a team of..





& mutual friends of friends, who got tired of the dating game and decided to change it.
We are bringing back human nuance to a space that's been overtaken by AI.
